I received a phone call from my sister Kathy's cell phone on Father's Day afternoon. She stated that it was urgent..and I needed to call her back as soon as possible. Before hanging up the phone, her voice starting wavering, and she said, "Sandy's dead, call me!".
I had been unable to find my home phone, so I scrambled for my cell. "What?......Sandy Murphy?" You'd have to understand my aunt Sandy to realize how unbelievable it was that she could have possible been the Sandy in question. You see, Aunt Sandy is the type of woman who has probably never had a pedicure, going to the city meant driving probably twenty some miles to Bozeman to get groceries...or "feed" ..and even then she had to really hustle, because she couldn't wait to return back home to the "country". The woman has killed rattlesnakes with shovels for goodness sake! She butchered chickens (and could even stomach frying one for lunch the very same afternoon) This was not a high maintenance woman! I guess what I'm trying to convey...is that she was the softest "tough" woman I've ever known. She really had a tender heart. She cared, really cared for people. It was the genuine type of caring...the kind where you felt 100% acceptance and love from her, regardless of how "different" the two of you might be from each other. When I was a young girl visiting her farm in the summers during summer vacation, I misunderstood. I thought that what made going to stay at Aunt Sandy's so great was fact that she lived on the most amazing plot of land in America, and had the most incredible neighbors, house, husband and animals. I really wanted to live there, too! I even thought I wanted to marry a farmer.....just like my Aunt Sandy! (can't you just picture me?) I realize now that what really made my Aunt Sandy special... was the fact that she was completely content in the old trailer house that she lived in, her ordinary farm, animals, and long, bumpy dirt road, BECAUSE of her love for the LORD...not that she necessarily genuinely had the best of the best. (Uncle Nolan excluded...he very well may just be) She got it. She found joy. She wasn't wrapped up in driving the right car, having the right clothes, living in the greatest house, having the "right" friends. She was content....she loved what she already had..and blessed others so richly with it! She didn't have the best "things"...or even the easiest life....but what she did with what she had is such an amazing testimony of the fulfillment we can find when we get things right with God....and give our lives completely to Him. The life she led points to what really counts when the hospital is forty miles away, the cell phones are out of range for service, so there's no way to call for help while her tender heart struggled its last. I'm so grateful that my Aunt Sandy "got it". I want for my life to reflect that I "get it" too....
Friday, June 29, 2007
Friday, June 15, 2007
Monday, June 11, 2007
Brooks started VBS today. They're having the theme of some spy stuff, and space ships...? something like that. Naturally, he's very thrilled with all of it.
Today's the first day that it's really felt like summer for me. It's humid, yes...not terrible stinky sweaty humid...just humid humid..where you know you're not in Montana anymore. I think we'd best put up the pool this afternoon when Reagan wakes up.
Brooks accidentally locked his bedroom door this morning. I told him to go CLOSE his door..and he came out and proclaimed that he'd locked it! At first he seemed quite proud of that fact...he'd never done this before...but then he quickly realized what it actually means.....I just hope Geoff gets off alot sooner than he was anticipating (midnight)..he's on call today...cardiovascular, pew!
Oh..and I buzzed Brooks' hair yesterday. I thought he'd think it was cool to have a new summer do. Oh.....I was SO wrong! The kid cried for over 45 minutes. Luckily Noah, a buddy from church had the same "do" at VBS today. I think he's beginning to realize there Is life after a bad haircut (I actually think it looks pretty much like it usually does..just shorter on top...what does a mom know though?)
anyone know how to unlock a bedroom door??? It does have a little hole in the doorknob....but i already tried the bobby pin method.....hmmm.......?
Today's the first day that it's really felt like summer for me. It's humid, yes...not terrible stinky sweaty humid...just humid humid..where you know you're not in Montana anymore. I think we'd best put up the pool this afternoon when Reagan wakes up.
Brooks accidentally locked his bedroom door this morning. I told him to go CLOSE his door..and he came out and proclaimed that he'd locked it! At first he seemed quite proud of that fact...he'd never done this before...but then he quickly realized what it actually means.....I just hope Geoff gets off alot sooner than he was anticipating (midnight)..he's on call today...cardiovascular, pew!
Oh..and I buzzed Brooks' hair yesterday. I thought he'd think it was cool to have a new summer do. Oh.....I was SO wrong! The kid cried for over 45 minutes. Luckily Noah, a buddy from church had the same "do" at VBS today. I think he's beginning to realize there Is life after a bad haircut (I actually think it looks pretty much like it usually does..just shorter on top...what does a mom know though?)
anyone know how to unlock a bedroom door??? It does have a little hole in the doorknob....but i already tried the bobby pin method.....hmmm.......?
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Friday, June 1, 2007
Celebration
So...
I'm extra happy, because tonight is the LAST night Geoff has to work overnight! (ok, at least for a month) I can't tell ya how much I miss him in the evening...and how tough it is to keep quiet during the day while he sleeps! (not me, Reagan, actually..)
P.S.
My belly's HUGE. I think this boy must weigh eight pounds already. yikes
I'm extra happy, because tonight is the LAST night Geoff has to work overnight! (ok, at least for a month) I can't tell ya how much I miss him in the evening...and how tough it is to keep quiet during the day while he sleeps! (not me, Reagan, actually..)
P.S.
My belly's HUGE. I think this boy must weigh eight pounds already. yikes
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